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John Glanvill - Complex Anxiety Specialist
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Добавлен 10 июн 2010
This information is to provide hope for anyone dealing with anxiety, OCD, or depression. I'm currently 60 years old & living a calm, happy, and fulfilling life. However, for the first 30 years, I struggled with anxiety, OCD, and episodes of bipolar depression, which eventually led to a complete mental breakdown. I want to show you that change is possible. I discovered I was the root of my problems. You can't simply remove mental health issues and stay the same - you must transform yourself into a new person. On this channel, I guide you to sign up for my anxiety and OCD recovery course, the result of twenty years of research into understanding practical actions we can consciously take to retrain our unconscious minds. The videos are based on common sense and a firsthand account of my experiences to re-engineer myself.
An average guy with an engineering brain and an emotional heart, and how he bridged the gap to unite them - with more calmness, self-awareness and self love.
An average guy with an engineering brain and an emotional heart, and how he bridged the gap to unite them - with more calmness, self-awareness and self love.
This is why thinking makes anxiety worse - we must go back to evolutionary basics
Why thinking makes anxiety worse! The full video can be watched here www.patreon.com/posts/video-2-what-you-25517483. It's from my calmness course, where I explain how I overcame my anxiety and OCD. Please check it out.
The following excerpt highlights the root cause of all anxiety disorders: the inherent disparity between conscious thought processes and unconscious emotions. Our conscious mind processes thoughts, while our emotions stem from our unconscious brain and body.
Mastering the balance between these two faculties is paramount for achieving inner peace and overall well-being. It's astonishing that such a vital aspect of our mental welfare is often overlooked in traditional educatio...
The following excerpt highlights the root cause of all anxiety disorders: the inherent disparity between conscious thought processes and unconscious emotions. Our conscious mind processes thoughts, while our emotions stem from our unconscious brain and body.
Mastering the balance between these two faculties is paramount for achieving inner peace and overall well-being. It's astonishing that such a vital aspect of our mental welfare is often overlooked in traditional educatio...
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Anxiety and depression cause exhaustion - So, might understanding energy speed up our recovery?
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This is a free clip from my anxiety & depression course; the full video can be accessed here www.patreon.com/posts/video-48-using-86346660 We are energetic creatures, and perhaps we need to connect with the energy of nature to enhance our recovery from anxiety and depression. In today's fast-paced and modern world, many people find themselves struggling with feelings of anxiety and depression. ...
OCD scary thoughts about psychosis and schizophrenia - how might Pure O see the mind differently?
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The full video can be accessed here www.patreon.com/posts/video-35-new-by-68454050 in my OCD and anxiety treatment course People with pure OCD, also known as Purely Obsessional OCD or Pure O, experience intense, intrusive thoughts without engaging in physical or observable compulsions. These individuals often have vivid imaginations and internal experiences which may cause them to fear the poss...
Does ADHD / ADD cause or influence Pure O (OCD scary ruminations) if repressed in childhood?
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My full essay can be accessed here www.patreon.com/posts/light-blue-touch-107380992 It is my experience, from two decades as an OCD therapist (and recovering from OCD myself) that very often, a person with Pure O OCD (which includes harm OCD, relationship OCD, sexual OCD, religious OCD and Contamination OCD) had ADD or ADHD in childhood but learned how to pretend to pay attention and fit in rat...
OCD - Obsessive Compulsive Disorder - I overcame my OCD, and this is how I now explain it
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Many people often ask me about OCD and how to determine if they have it, as I work as an OCD therapist. OCD can manifest in numerous diverse ways, making its diagnosis easily overlooked or misunderstood due to the wide range of symptoms such as Pure O, Harm OCD, Relationship OCD, hypochondria, and various compulsions and intrusive thoughts. OCD sits on top of anxiety and other anxiety disorders...
Can we still care without feeling another's emotional pain? Becoming lovingly detached
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This is a free clip from video 29 in my anxiety & OCD education course www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist - please check it out. 00:00 John Glanvill - Anxiety Specialist 00:11 I care, but I don't care! 00:30 One person suffering is enough! 00:57 Becoming lovingly detached 01:16 Keeping your emotional battery recharged 01:32 Do we need to give an opinion? Is being too sensitive, emotional and ...
Placebo helps to reduce anxiety and raise confidence - But, only if you do it!
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This free clip is from my video discussing what placebo is and how to do it effectively to reduce anxiety - the full video is in my anxiety recovery course www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist The placebo effect is a fascinating and complex phenomenon that has intrigued scientists, healthcare professionals, and the general public for decades. The placebo effect refers to the beneficial effect e...
Reticular Activating System (RAS) reprogram your brain for more calmness and direction
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The full video (from my anxiety recovery course) can be accessed here www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist Why reprogramming your RAS - Reticulating Activating System is fundamental for personal growth. Plus it forces you to ask yourself who you wish to become and what you want from your life. The Vision Board Video - I reference can be viewed here ruclips.net/video/9JUR9L0Fic0/видео.html I can...
Might anxiety & OCD be eased by less left-brain thinking and more right-brain spiritual connections?
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The full video can be accessed here www.patreon.com/posts/video-50-part-5-99482013 It is from my anxiety and OCD treatment program where I document how I recovered from those mental health conditions. If you have tried everything to recover from anxiety yet still feel anxious and exhausted, then maybe the solution you are looking for resides in a place you've yet to explore. I would like to sha...
Is your birth (DNA) personality conflicting with your domesticated personality & causing anxiety?
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Access the whole 45-minute video here www.patreon.com/posts/video-16-your-to-40786793 As I have been teaching in this anxiety and OCD education course, you can't simply think your way out of anxiety, nor can you just "take it out" of yourself. This is because anxiety is usually a symptom of who you are. It's about the way you worry, the way you control things, and how you handle fear and confli...
How to help anxious (and OCD) people who won't help themselves - what can YOU do to help THEM?
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If you live with an anxious or OCD adult and they are not doing all they can to help themselves - here are my recommendations for what you can do to help them (and, therefore, yourself!) Here are tips and advice from how I overcame anxiety, OCD and depression and what I learned as an anxiety therapist and two decades of mental health disorders research and experimentation. I don't think enough ...
Here's how to train others to treat you better - Introducing our Virtual Reality Stories
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The full video can be accessed here www.patreon.com/posts/49428033 This is a clip from my personal growth course where I teach how to overcome anxiety, OCD and low self-esteem. In this video, I discuss how we each have a virtual reality story in our brains about all of the people around us and we treat them in line with this virtual reality story even if it is wrong or out of date. Therefore it...
Tips for a calmer and more loving relationship - can we see love (and care) differently?
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The whole video can be accessed here in my course www.patreon.com/posts/video-19-love-44457084 This is a clip from my anxiety, OCD and depression recovery course/program where I discuss what love is and sensible tips for a good relationship. I discuss how love and care might operate and give examples. We need to learn how to love others the way they wish to be loved and focus more on what we do...
Learning how to stop doing drama will help reduce anxiety and emotional exhaustion
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The full video is in my Anxiety, OCD & Depression Recovery Course here www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist/about This free clip introduces you to DDD Don't Do Drama - the obvious (but often overlooked) skill that anxious people would benefit from perfecting. #anxiety #anxietycourse #ocdtreatment #ocd
Dr Hawkins Map of Consciousness - Applying an energy mindset to anxiety & OCD recovery
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The full video can be accessed here www.patreon.com/posts/71188471 This is a clip from my online anxiety, OCD and depression recovery and self-help treatment course www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist where I explore one of the missing links in recovery from most mental health issues - and that is ENERGY. All mental health conditions leave the person exhausted and in a fearful (and low energy)...
Stop feeling Guilty - What I would tell my younger self to better understand Guilt
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Stop feeling Guilty - What I would tell my younger self to better understand Guilt
Learn how to develop and trust your intuition, as this will reduce anxiety
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Learn how to develop and trust your intuition, as this will reduce anxiety
Reducing anxiety/OCD by understanding Myers-Briggs MBTI Emotional Stacks with an INFJ example
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Reducing anxiety/OCD by understanding Myers-Briggs MBTI Emotional Stacks with an INFJ example
Why ERP is more effective on your life than on your anxiety (or OCD) symptoms! Watch this...
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Why ERP is more effective on your life than on your anxiety (or OCD) symptoms! Watch this...
Some thoughts about ADHD from an OCD therapist
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Some thoughts about ADHD from an OCD therapist
Is it sensible being too nice, or does it cause anxiety, exhaustion and the need to please others?
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Is it sensible being too nice, or does it cause anxiety, exhaustion and the need to please others?
Here's why you should Live in the NOW to lower anxiety and stress - There is only NOW!
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Here's why you should Live in the NOW to lower anxiety and stress - There is only NOW!
Releasing trapped trauma (or stuck energy) - Guided meditation
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Releasing trapped trauma (or stuck energy) - Guided meditation
Best advice I would give my Anxious, Shy, Self-conscious and OCD Younger Self! (Please Share)
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Best advice I would give my Anxious, Shy, Self-conscious and OCD Younger Self! (Please Share)
ERP tips, tricks and examples - Part 4 (of 5) of the OCD Exposure & Response Prevention Series
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ERP tips, tricks and examples - Part 4 (of 5) of the OCD Exposure & Response Prevention Series
ERP tips for Anxiety & OCD - The Negative ERP Trap stops effective Exposure & Response Prevention
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ERP tips for Anxiety & OCD - The Negative ERP Trap stops effective Exposure & Response Prevention
Helpful advice on Health Anxiety, Hypochondria and Contamination OCD
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Helpful advice on Health Anxiety, Hypochondria and Contamination OCD
Anxiety & OCD therapist John Glanvill talks about how he overcame OCD and anxiety
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Anxiety & OCD therapist John Glanvill talks about how he overcame OCD and anxiety
What is courage & how might you access it? Dom & John discuss how bravery helps to overcome anxiety
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What is courage & how might you access it? Dom & John discuss how bravery helps to overcome anxiety
Using common sense to stop procrastinating, find more energy and get on with life
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Using common sense to stop procrastinating, find more energy and get on with life
Hi, you are my go to channel :) I was wondering if you have any tips on dealing with anxiety regarding the current situations in the U.K- the large amount of knife crimes and riots is unsettling and makes me feel unsafe and anxious. Thank you so much
I understand, however, life is how life is and (I think) we are here on Earth to learn how to accept, affect or learn how to see life differently. The vast majority of people are very kind, loving and caring! Just a few are stupid/bad/dangerous. I grew up in South London and even in the 70's it was required to be street-smart, so not much has really changed except the level of reporting on the news, less policing and a more fearful population. I would stop watching the news, take a personal defence course, try to live in a nicer area and work on seeing the best in people/life not the worst. This is what I try to teach in my course. I hope this helps a little? Video 18 of my course tries to teach you how to train your brain to see good things not bad things. I am not denying there is danger on (some of) our streets/towns but few countries don't have that and the ones that are largely safe, have other draconian rules in place to manage it.
Nice😊some people have problem with decisions because prefrontal cortex doesnt work properly, or they are exsasted 😊
If the lymbic system is overwelming it need helps..behind of that it can be insulin issue, high cortisol that person thinks all the time, i would say it is neurological issue 😊
Thank you
You are very welcome - best wishes - John
im finally getting around to watching these videos, I went down a bit of a bad spiral this year & am now kind of seeing the light. Things got so bad that I ended up on SSRI's (briefly) against my own judgement & intuition, and tapered off after about 2 months on my own accord. I haven't been on them now since mid may. I saw an OCD specialist too though that didn't work out as I felt like she never took me seriously and even chucked when I told her my theme. She did help me to understand ocd to a degree though, and how I just need not give it power. This has helped a lot but need to dive further into other areas of anxiety such as my agoraphobia. In no means am I perfect and I have a long way to go. What DID draw me to you though was how perfectly you explained ocd, even better than this therapist. Almost immaculately to my experience. I was going through some really, really bad anxiety last year due to where I am in life. Funnily enough a year to this date. This seemed to have stemmed from my job that I would go to day in & out which I know isn't who I am and have most certainly outgrown - But due to agoraphobia and being stuck in the same fkn 10km (which I overcome but seem to slip back & forth), I IGNORED all these feelings because I felt like I didn't have a choice. and there was a clear indicator that this was the issue. I had this feeling of stress in my body that developed that just wouldn't go away and I kept trying to fight through. Eventually my brain pulled out the big guns & it developed into this whole pure OCD thing. Makes total sense. I am still at that same job but that feeling of stress has since dissipated to a degree, I believe because I am now working on ways of getting myself out of that place (or just the place I am in life). Since we briefly spoke in early January about ocd in the comments, I have now started studying a course trying to fix these issues. I have a long way to go, but the journey has begun. I just need to fix my focus, and stop pretending everything is fine. because its not.
Good for you man! The secret to finding calmness is through courage, self-esteem, understanding your innate personality type, seeing the world differently, updating your belief systems, finding your voice, retraining your brain, desensitising your body and accessing energy. My process teaches all of this. Good luck.
From what I can inter from my experience I was crippled by OCD and anxiety but now I am able to work finely. I will say that the treatment of OCD is not like a take medicine and do therapy type work, it needs work in some other directions also, it's more about knowing oneself more and understanding the core concept of "I am that". What I mean Its primarily an issue with your brain and mind but you should also know that those are not the only things in our consciousness. We say we get repetitive thoughts but tell me what is repetitive in this, your mind will never stop reacting to everything around you unless it understand the emptiness of it all. Like in the deep sleep we achieve such states after which dream initiation takes place and in those dreams you see some reality. I waking states you are plagued by what then? The delusional reality, everything that is happening around you isn't it just another repetition of things? Your awareness is something that is always pure you can keep having pain physical and mental but your awareness of that pain or something can bring out it's true nature then all of pain becomes nothing and what about pleasure it is also the same. Just bring your awareness which is nothing but your curious attention to things and observing things from a curious person's viewpoint you will find the true nature of reality, our mind's nature which seeks to find the causal relationship between things has to be let go off and only then you begin keeping track of things, multiple aspects of things will come to your mind, that is true consciousnes and it is this mind which is healthy which is whole and doesn't feel any bondage because of the thoughts and emotions, it has to completely surrender to one central aspect of living which that of being an observer and nothing else.
Absolutely true!
I struggle with guilt and pets.
Both can be reconceptualised and desensitised - here are some video clips that might help. Guilt - ruclips.net/video/0OPBJGfH3kE/видео.html ERP done correctly - ruclips.net/video/T1uwCPzqLHo/видео.html
What is the name of that song you used in your advertisement? I heard your ad on a youtube video and liked the song and decided to check out the channel which I also like lol. But I was wondering if you knew the name of the song because I enjoyed it hahaha
ruclips.net/video/9JUR9L0Fic0/видео.html the song details are in the credits at the end of the video :-)
I was severely traumatized years ago as a teenage, got diagnosed with OCD. Spent my whole life fighting OCD. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Not until my mom recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 6 years totally clean. Much respect to mother nature the great magic shrooms.
YES very sure of Dr.alishrooms. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, BPD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
How do I reach out to him? Is he on insta
Yes he's Dr.alishrooms. My daughter did straight shrooms in few days. Made her whole! after words, no more addictions, pains, ptsd and depression. It helped us.
Thanks for sharing this great information, this would help my son.
Saw people talking about..checked him out, I must say he's good at what he does. My son is clean 1 year now. Good luck. just micro dose and you won't trip. Mushrooms helped my son get off opioid.
This is me. To a tea, unfortunately.
Well, there is much you can do to reverse the OCD - though ADHD is just how you are - my wife has it an is as happy as Larry!
@@TakeResponsibilityforYOURLife I managed to keep it together for 42 years as a workaholic. Then I hit perimenopause and unfortunately had a nervous breakdown and now have agoraphobia. It's going to take time.
The secret is all about recharging your emotional battery... ruclips.net/video/sKqMJbr_caA/видео.html
Great
Thank you!
I just experienced it for the first time on Monday please anyone i need help
Now's the time to get help before it sets in - or two start by watching the first 4 free videos here in my channel - here is the first one ruclips.net/video/nXk75ezkRK4/видео.html
Dear Sir, I am watching your videos and I have taken your membership videos and I am getting charged every month. Sir, I am asking myself that if I am not able to pay that amount then will I be able to access those videos or not because right now I am not able to do so.
Sorry, RUclips only offers a subscription service - you can access the files all the time you area member.
Hello Dr, I’m from Syria and unfortunately the doctors here are stupid I’m lost with anxiety and pure O ocd And I always fear that what if I have depression and now I hate life I have bo passion I care about nothing and I really hate myself for being that person The doctor I went to gave me Paroxetine and it made me worse I’m afraid that It’s going to be this way my whole life I wanna get better bust I don’t know how I guess some medicine might help but I don’t trust doctors anymore Could u offer me some help please ? Any advice or sth
This might give you a better understanding of Pure O - ruclips.net/video/XlVXzaf46jg/видео.html
Meybi you need diffrent meds😊
John, you are a constant source of inspiration 🙌🏼 Thank you and stay well 🎩
Cheers, man!!
@@mikeshelton8254 thank you for listening to me talk about ENERGY !!!!! ;-)
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU I LOVE YOU THANK YOU
You are very welcome!
Good
Thank you!
I don't know if I have OCD or if it's my autism or anxiety. I fear and obsess about death a lot and every sensation in my body brings me into a spiral in which I can't stop googling about it and I can't stop seeking reassurance that I will be ok. I know the thoughts are irrational but I just can't stop. I have a lot of thoughts that I'm scared to talk about because people will probably look at me differently. My mind just won't stop and when I have calmed down about one topic, a new one starts. I don't even know what are my normal thoughts anymore. Sorry for dumping this here, I just needed to write about it somewhere and came across this video.
This seems more like Pure O OCD - I discuss that here ruclips.net/video/XlVXzaf46jg/видео.html
great as always
Thank you, much appreciated!
brain need support, i couldnt function without meds, even if i know everything of this, it was imposible to function, and of course nutrition play alot of role! this "stories" paralysed the person with intrusive thoughts and imagies, even if i believe myself all the time, this imagies didnt stop, and i couldnt function..so is your program based on telling positive afirmation to ourselfs?
Totaly agree, but for me only carnivore and meds stop this. it i all corelated, with high cortisol, adrenalin, insulin..it is all depend how much "amygdala" is "damaged" from traumatic events..person with delussional thinking need treatment, and also for ocd, severity can disable person*
I follow the carnivore diet too - it really changes how the brain function when it is fuelled from fats, I blog about it in my course.
@@TakeResponsibilityforYOURLife really, i didnt see it..i have to watch it 🤗
PLEASE HELP!!! I am Spanish and therefore my entire message will be written by a translator. I hope you can understand me. I am Víctor from Spain, I am 20 years old and I have had anxiety since I was little, it used to occur in class, in restaurants, in a movie theater to give some examples... well the fact is, I have been in this hell for 2 years, on May 9, 2022 I I woke up having thoughts that in my life I had had about harming myself, I remember that the day before before going to sleep I read a news story about a boy who took his own life, logic tells me that this could have been a possible trigger, I at the same time At first I was scared because I didn't want to do that nor do I want to and I didn't know what was happening to me, I had a lot of anxiety, my chest hurt, I was short of breath, I felt terrible... in the middle of that hell I thought, well, this is going to be a bad day and Tomorrow I will be fine, because the days went by and it was still the same, even because of the fear I had, I even slept with my mother, imagine... a few days after this, while I was in my room, this thought occurred to me, which I remember perfectly. What if I kill my mother? If after the thoughts of hurting myself I was already bad, imagine after that crossed my mind... literally, I couldn't even see my mother, it was terrible, if before I had anxiety, then after thinking that I had twice as much... investigating why Google I found content about intrusive thoughts and such, at that time while reading about the subject I came across a phrase that helped me at that moment (you are not your thoughts) and that literally eliminated the physical symptoms that I had even though those thoughts were still there. A few days after this I went to the psychiatrist to tell him exactly what I am telling in this message and he told me about impulsive phobias, I went home and a few days after this the typical news that they give at night was on Antena 3's news. Well, well, they talked about a news story about a boy with schizophrenia and what happened to me is that I was literally in shock, I hardly slept that night, literally when I heard that I was like, I have this. I started looking for symptoms throughout the summer and a few more months, in total 4/5 months followed day by day on Google, on RUclips videos of people with schizophrenia, videos about psychotic breaks, about other mental disorders and well from there I am not bad, the following. I literally began to pay attention to sounds and for example I was watching a RUclips video of whatever and if I heard something that could be outside of that video, I would rewind the video to see if I heard it again, that was an example of what What I did and sometimes I continued doing it, I was aware of what I saw or if I saw things out of the ordinary, sometimes out of the corner of my eye I see like a flash and I wonder if you are freaking out in case it is a hallucination, I also read about delusions and paranoia and to give an example, reading that these people think they want to kill them and from then on I have thoughts of that style, "paranoid" thoughts even though I know they are a lie, I don't know if after everything I'm saying Are you finding out what is happening to me or if perhaps in your consultation you have had cases of this style, because in Spanish I have barely found information as if I have found it in English and they relate it to OCD called OCD Going Crazy, but literally that Sometimes I doubt that this could be OCD, this seems serious, I'm afraid it's psychosis or schizophrenia, I'm shit, I need help, it seems like I'm delirious at times, although I repeat, I know that certain thoughts don't make sense... I think that reading symptoms has messed with my head because in my life I have had these thoughts and I think I am very suggestive. 3 psychiatrists tell me that they are impulsive phobias but come on, sometimes it seems like he's really crazy.
Super Helpful Content! Thank you!🙏
Thanks for letting me know!
As someone who has struggled immensly with crippling pure o (many subtypes) and rocd for forever, and recently finally also been diagnosed with adhd (which makes a lot of sense- ofc besides the moments where my ocd gaslights me into thinking i do not have adhd😂) i cannot thank you enough for this insightful video which has just been mindblowing and VERY much fits what my therapist is trying to explain to me about my life and why i have this excitable adhd nature and at the same time these abhorent Obsessions as well as a harsh inner critic. I still think i need some time to get this into my head, how my pure o has arisen to keep my adhd nature at bay, and how this plays out for the different themes but i wanted to thank you for helping us out with your insightful video, this makes so much sense to me:) also, in case you know: do you have any tips for medication when it comed to the adhd and pure o combination?
Personally, I would try to avoid any medication because a person with ADHD has super sensitive responses to alcohol, medication & recreational drugs (more than the average person) so any medication to try to stimulate the person - works for a day or two, then absolutely exhausts them and makes their anxiety worse. Beta blockers tend to cause a dependancy. Anti-psychotics make you a zombie and the jury is out whether SSRI's actually work or are simply a placebo! The secret is to understand how the OCD operates and then to disarm it through using clever psychology and biology reprogramming. For example, your OCD is an unconscious response - so the only way you can change that is by consciously tricking your unconscious into running new automatic programs. This means you will have to consciously see that logic and reason (of the conscious mind) are not what the unconscious mind uses. However, if you are taught how the unconscious mind operates you can see what you need to do to consciously reprogram it. Then learn new ways to accept your ADHD nature and not fear it - and learn new ways to see the world and interact with it. That is why I have spent 5 years making my OCD recovery course - so a person can learn what is happening to them and what they can do to change themselves. It is here www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist - you might be really surprised how much you can do to change yourself. The course is only £10 a month to subscribe to as I wish for everybody to be able to access really professional help at a fair and affordable price as there is far too much anxiety in this world - and there is much you can do about it :-) Best wishes - John
Bear in mind that though you will wish to help yourself, your ADHD will sabotage all efforts to actually take action - therefore you might need another person to 'make you' watch the videos and do the work - I talk about it here ruclips.net/video/eZ8QanEwYLs/видео.html
This is really interesting! . I only recently discovered Pure O OCD and I’m sure I have it. I was late diagnosed autistic, I possibly have the inattentive type of ADHD but I’ve never been tested. Do you think the link could extend to overall ND being suppressed/masked, not just ADHD in childhood?
Yes, I do!
Unconscious PureO targets the opposite of who that person really is. Example: they consciously desire to travel, but unconsciously fear traveling. They consciously desire to be social, but unconsciously fear of abusing those whom they meet. Or unknowingly they sabotage their relationships. They consciously want to break rules, but unconsciously fear other people being upset and telling them off. 🟥 Pure O (OCD), Complex Anxiety This is mind blowing and it perfectlty makes sense.
Its obvious really - I don't know why main stream psychology can't see this?
@@TakeResponsibilityforYOURLife I wasted 20 years on CBT - following it blindly to cure my social anxiety. CBT instructed me to believe: 1) that my fears are irrational, that toxic people do not exist but in my cognitive distortions are making me scared - which was not true. 2) that am I abnormal since I lack social skills, and that I am sick because I do not have assertiveness - and I must develop shame and guilt to improve my errors and flaws. This ended as toxic shame. I ended up being crippled with panic - since CBT explained me that social anxiety is my fault. While in reality - I learned that social anxiety is byproduct of ACE and ACoA - toxic ambient where we learn to suppress our natural healthy anger and we push it down. Then other parts inside us take the role of anger - unsuccessfully and creating panic in the process - since it is similar to sending children to war front. I suppressed my army and miliary and police parts - that are specialized for establishing boundaries and alarming intruders when they cross common sense social agreements. CBT never explained it like that. CBT is automatic default therapy for social anxiety - anyone struggling with social anxiety will buy self help books or enter into medical therapy - which will be based on CBT. With CBT I developed fawning and people pleasing and self blame and toxic shame and PureOCD and inner critic - since I never had been told that I am suppressing my anger. No one told me that is the only problem and nothing else. Before social anxiety I was social, I was outgoing, I had social skills - this is not something that I was unable to have, as CBT explained it.
@@ranc1977CBT is not very effective for OCD - especially pure o. ERP on intrusive thoughts must be to normalize fears not step into them. For example - a fear of stabbing a person must be visualised as cooking that person a loving meal using knives appropriately then eating it with them using a knife and for.
@@TakeResponsibilityforYOURLife Yeah. My PureOCD theme was around rude, violent aggressive people who yell and scream at me - either because I did something wrong or they accuse me of something I didn't do. Their anger was something that came back to me as intrusive thought and I could not shake it off. Either physical or verbal abuse form someone I know or someone random, at work or in street, this was my PureOCD obsession - how to fix their anger, how to shield from it, how not to feel unworthy and inept and guilty about it. This was my obsession theme that plagued me - and CBT had no other explanation other than blaming my "cognitive distortions". While in reality - it was my own suppressed anger - inability for my anger to handle toxic people and hence create invisible shield so that they can't hurt me inside as they did.
@@ranc1977 That makes sense.
Complex Anxiety - This is the first time I hear of this term and I love it!!! Genius! Yes, PureOCD comes from repressed anger. PureOCD is also worry about other people's anger and their hate. Most common at toxic job or in dysfunctional family or living in shame culture country where people are constantly expressing their negative and intruding opinion about some person, ad hominems, other person real or imagined flaws mistakes and errors.
It's my experience that people with Pure O are very clever, creative, extroverted and artisan - they are just not living (or seeing themselves) in this way. They must stop comparing themselves to others, stop trying to fit in - and find their own unique path. My course tries to teach people how to do this.
@@TakeResponsibilityforYOURLife Amazing work! This is similar to IFS Model and Coherence Therapy. IFS model speaks about our suppressed parts which are unable to perform their specialty - their expertise - and then other parts take over to do the job done - without doing it correctly since these other parts are not equipped to do it. For example, If I have social anxiety - this is not because of lack of skills as CBT explains it. While in reality - social anxiety is byproduct of suppressed anger. Where our other parts take over the role of anger with catastrophic results: not being able to socialize. Without anger I will allow my compassion to socialize the most, and this will end up as fawning and people pleasing and being easily exploited by toxic people such as narcissists and psychopaths (Mate Crime)-
Hey John, i suffer from sexual orientation obsessions/ruminations (worrying if im gay has morphed into what if im in denial). At first i thought it targets the opposite so that means im straight but I was triggered and confused as to what my conscious desire is versus the unconconsious OCD sabotage.
I have ocd, adhd and depression. Several therapists have said it sounds like ocd developed as a result of my adhd being repressed as a kid. Maybe I was more susceptible? Idk. I’m medicated for both though now and have gone through years of therapy. ADHD feels like who I am, like I need to manage it rather than it ever going away, whereas my ocd I feel like I work hard to keep it in “remission” sort of. Idk if that makes sense! But this is sooo interesting.
It makes sense. The meds usually exhaust the ADHD person as they have a very sensitive nature to drugs and alcohol. They work for a few days, then wipe them out emotionally. Yes, just embrace your ADHD, live in the now and focus on that which interests you.
I think this group also have bi-polar depression. I have a theory about this and will make a short video about it soon.
You might like this video too ruclips.net/video/XlVXzaf46jg/видео.html
Ooh. I love this! My curious brain is like “I figured! I just need to know who I am.”
Better to ask yourself, "Who you wish to be!" :-)
You have no idea what kinda impact these videos have on people that are facing such issues. Thanks a million
I know it helps, I wish I could reach more people :-)
I had no idea.i have been diagnosed with depression, anxiety, ptsd, and emotional personality disorder. But this pretty much describes me to a tee.
@@user-oj6ue5px3s Yes, it is about reconnecting with who you feel you are not who you think you are, be yourself, but realise you are different (in a good way) from the other 80% of sheeple :-)
Thank you so much for the explanation!
You are very welcome.
John, I’m 36 yo man. Currently I’m struggling with intrusive ideas, I feel terrible. Is there hope for me? I feel hopeless and like I’m wasting my days. I’m not functional rn. What can I do?
Hi, I suggest you watch this video ruclips.net/video/ip-fXAoqkik/видео.html - This is video 1, and I have 60 videos! it is just a process of going through them, and you'll see there is a process. However, your OCD will try to sabotage you from watching them all! So, your battle is between doing the required work and stopping your OCD from stopping you from doing it! It's possible, if you trust me - watch the videos and do what I suggest in each video. John
This is spot on. Thank you for sharing.
Funny how once you see it - it makes sense, but living it is so invisible!
This is very helpful - Thankyou
Glad it makes sense; it can be quite a revelation for some people.
Thank you for sharing this information.
You are very welcome.
John this was such a great explanation on ocd , really loving your content!!
Thank you - it is based on 20 years as an OCD therapist and my own recovery!
1:35 You perfectly described it.
Yes, it is always the nice guys or those dominant ones who had their natural dominance domesticated out of them by parents, school or emotional trauma. Or those who had ADHD as a child and learned how to repress their natural, free spirit to try and fit into society! All three groups can relearn how to be their true selves if they are shown how. That is what my course treaches.
I have acute OCD/BDD. I have suffered for eighteen years with these debilitating disorders, trying to kill myself throughout these years four times. Where I live only basic CBT is available ERP is unavailable. I am so ill I believe I am insane. I have zero quality of live, zero chance of ever getting better.
I'm sorry you are going through this. Did you have mild ADHD as a child? This often morphs into Pure O (thinking OCD) and often BDD in teenage or adult years (in my experience). Also, if this is the case, the repressed ADD often results in knowing what you need to do to change your life, but failing to take action upon it. (I mean this respectfully as my wife has ADHD and needs me to keep nudging her towards actions that she knows she desires to do. My video course will explain everything and demonstrate what you can do to help yourself if you want to. This is why I created the course, as there are very few people who truly understand OCD, and getting private help from specialists can be very costly. Plus CBT (and the way CBT teaches ERP) is not very effective for OCD especially pure O with sexual, harming or contamination-type thoughts. I have 5 videos on how and why to do effective ERP in my course Video 50 parts 1 to 5. Good luck whatever you choose to do. John www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
This might help ruclips.net/video/ip-fXAoqkik/видео.html
missed you john! So good to hear your voice again my man!
I've not been anywhere its just RUclips don’t serve my content very well!
Do you follow Chase Hughes? Your explanations about the RAS sound very similar
No, I've not heard of him. However, the RAS works the way it works therefore the explanations ought to be similar 🙂
@ComplexAnxietyRecoveryCourse I definitely recommend his work. I've learned a lot from him. You both gave the new car example so that's why I asked 😊
Thank You So Much! 🙏🏾
You are very welcome, my friend!
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Thank you !
Top video! I encourage everyone to visit the patreon site of John for more videos like this
Thank you - there are over 60 videos in my course www.patreon.com/theanxietyspecialist
Thank you. You have a new subscriber :)
Thank you. - please enjoy!
Thanks for these -- discovered you yesterday and for that I'm very grateful.
You are welcome - I have many more videos in my course.
Your videos have a lot of information that are intuitive to me and just make sense. Thank you!
Thank you - I think common sense has become a forgotten skill :-)
I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS GREAT RESEARCH WORK
I love researching - then testing things out on myself.
Good insights
Thank you!
John changed my life!
You changed your life - by following my course, well done!